It is hard to be a good Muslim when the nafs is getting so impatient. I want to be a good husband to a good wife who will inshaa Allah not be a loss for my deen but a benefit. I endeavour to not allow my family to taste the fire of Jahannum by any means, no matter the sacrifice required. I need an obedient wife who will not oppose me in this endeavour.
Must know the meaning of obedience and respect and sabr, as without these, she will only harm her own deen and aakhirah, and make it hard for me to maintain these attributes in the home myself.
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