I am a 41y/o male, divorced with 4 children. I love them and am an active part of their lives. I smoke but I have been involved in sport for most of my life, primarily swimming but have not been entering events the last few years. I am employed in Snr Management dealing with payment management sytems in the public transport field as well as traffic enforcement technology. I always find it difficult to describe my personality, I think that's because I feel that people are made up of many complex qualities influenced by their environment at any specific time. I have been described as loud, confident and opinionated, very sad and shocking to me :-). I am definitely determined and driven, most of the time :-), as I say it depends on the mood and situation. I am adventurous and often seek out to do activities that are out of the ordinary and to this end have enjoyed many experiences in my life. I have travelled a bit and hope that I will some more. When it comes to a partner, I have no plan, I believe that the heart will want what it wants (don't you hate that! that it can't be controlled), it just is between 2 fingers.
I have my reasons and with a partnership of this nature I need a muslim woman if there is any hope that it is going anywhere. My deen is important and I need to be able to share, talk and have understanding between me and the person I spend time with, simple. Non South African woman seeking general chat are welcome but honestly right now, I can't see it happen, not that it won't I just can't see it.
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