I am 27 year old female who has grown up in Canada but originally from Somalia. I try to live a good Muslim life but am not perfect. But then again who can truly say they are perfect. I would say that I am fairly shy but once I get to know someone its easier for me to be comfortable around them. The one thing I am not is judgmental and that is one thing I would want in a partner. I love all of humanity and wish not to judge them because judging human choices is for the creator because our judgement of others is truly fruitless and meaningless. However, this is not to say that I would not advise someone close to me about things but I would not judge them or condemn them ever.
I am interested in finding a compatible partner. Human beings come in all shapes, sizes, personalities etc but the most important thing to me is compatibility. Its important that we see eye to eye on the most important things in life. So my ideal partner would be someone who is patient, kind, considerate and confident. Someone who has a stable job and optimistic outlook on life. I would not describe myself as materialistic, however I don't think it is materialistic to want to be with someone who can afford to financial support myself and our future children. So to me its not about the income but rather that you be someone who aspires to be your best and always looking to improve and build upon your skills to make a more secure future for those who depend on you. Also someone who is takes into consideration my wishes and does not feel the need to control or dictate my life. Although I would be fine being a housewife, I would not want to be with someone who would want that to be my only option. So its important that the person be someone who is open minded, flexible and willing to compromise in all matters of life. Someone who values my opinion and is not focused on always being right or making the decisions the end all be all without considering my feelings or concerns. Someone who has good relations with his family and people in general. Someone who can be sensitive and understanding. Someone who is not selfish but rather generous, giving and caring. Someone who does not get made easily or hold grudges for long time and is forgiving. Someone who want to have children and find true love and most importantly someone who I can be comfortable around. Someone can be my best friend, my shoulder to lean and who is not afraid to be open and talk about anything.Lastly, someone who is not superficial and judges people on their inside. Someone who truly understand "Don't judge a book by its cover". The key to a good story is not the cover but what is inside the book, the beauty lays beyond the cover where one has to open the cover and look inside. If you read that last part and though "she is probably not good looking", than you and I are not compatible. I want someone who does not judge others, who does not class people into groups but rather see's everyone as equal and recognizes that each one of has their own unique beauty. We all came from a source of beauty so the appearance of our flesh is not something to be judged.
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